I jst want to share some information for what i learnt through the course that i went.
It is an useful tool. You can use it to apply in your life. In a way that it can help you to deal in you life.
My lecturer, Dr. Christopher Fong, he is an clinical counsultant in Raffles Hospital.
He has written a book but has not published yet. He has a new way of looking life in different persepective.
We tend to look conflicts as problems, thinking it as bad. Conflict is good for our life. There may be bad and good conflicts. There are some conflicts occur to have some changes in everything we does.
Conflicts are changes. We need to look at in positive perspective. In this way, God is changing us to be Christ -like. I usually does not like changes. I thought changes are very bitter and took it as negative perspective.
There are lots of things we need to take note. We are surrounded with many fears. The four main fears are: Family, Finance, Fitness and Future.
These fears are always surrounded in our daily life. By these, we are facing conflicts everyday. It starts from the moment when we woke up and the moment we closes our eyes to sleep. Everyday we are facing lots of conflict. Thinking what to do next. We are being so compressed with these conflicts, we even tend to forget who God is, what is the purpose God has placed us here in this earth.
Fears are surrounded in our daily life. The devil places our weakness with fears to divert our minds from worshipping God, praising God. In this way, we likely to slack.
We are to resolve our fears and our unresolved issues. If we don't, we likely to sweep it under and may accumulate it
